9 Great Habits in Boss Management

Woe to the person that fails to properly manage his or her boss.  And don’t confuse the concept of managing the boss with anything that resembles shameless sucking-up or its close cousin, brown-nosing.

While some bosses are more challenging than others, you are well served to give it your best shot to understand as much about your boss’s working style, priorities, expectations and aspirations as possible.

Learning to work with and yes manage the person that you work for is a critical issue in ensuring your short-term success and long-term professional sanity.  Those interested in digging in to some of the formative work on “boss management” are encouraged to check out the work of John Kotter and John Gabarro, including their formative article, “Managing Your Boss.” in the Harvard Business Review.

For now, here’s a quick checklist to help remind you of some best practices that you can apply immediately.

9 Great Habits in Boss Management:

1. Keep the boss appropriately informed. You should gauge his/her need for information volume and frequency and adapt to it.  Also, remember that some bosses are “readers” and some are “listeners.”  Don’t overwhelm a “listener” with reports and don’t expect verbal updates to cut it with “readers.”

2. Prove your credibility daily. Honesty is the only policy.  Never give a boss a reason to doubt your word.

3. Your boss’s priorities are yours. Learn them, live them, work them.

4. Know the boss’s pet programs. See also the priority note. Find ways to support and extend those programs across the organization.

5. Learn your boss’s aspirations. Help a great boss achieve his/her aspirations and you’ll benefit in the process.  Help a lousy boss do the same and you’ve solved a problem.

6. Know your boss’s organizational heroes. Seek opportunities to help bring them and you together.

7. Outside interests? Make them yours if you can be genuine. While it might be hard for you to fake interest in WWF Wrestling or Tractor Pulling or whatever slightly off-the-beaten path interest your boss has, you are well served to show interest if he does.  The best case is finding an opportunity that interests both of you and genuinely finding ways to share information and even time.  In my household, I grew up riding motorcyles and skiing  with my Dad and his boss and coworkers.

8. Resist the urge to publicly disagree with your boss. Speak up respectfully in private if you have to, but, don’t light a boss-bridge on fire in a public setting.  The quick combustion might consume you.

9. Negative Boss Talk. It’s easy to fall into this trap and cathartic for some. Never, ever, ever engage in negative boss talk.  Run, don’t walk in the other direction.

Don’t Expect Easy-My Top 15 Suggestions for Coping as a Professional

“Easy” is not a term that should be on your mind, except when it comes to improving the experience for your customers. Outside of making life easier for your customers, there are few circumstances where “easy” shows up or where you are justified in expecting things to go that way.

If you’re at the early stage of your career, the transition from home to school to job is an interesting one.  If you are a recent graduate, chance are that you’ve already discovered that things aren’t so easy in this economy as you pound the pavement looking for a job.  While this awkward phase will pass in time, your immersion in the workforce will underscore why “easy” is a foreign term.

And of course, if you’ve been around the block a few times, you’ve already discovered that “easy” is rare indeed.

Things That Are Most Definitely Not Easy in Business:

• Working for a difficult boss
• Becoming a boss
• Becoming a good boss
• Finding great people
• Hiring the right people
• Undoing the process of hiring the wrong people
• Competing in the market
• Competing internally
• Leading without authority
• Creating a new strategy
• Implementing a new strategy
• Getting others to follow
• Following
• Making mistakes
• Learning from mistakes
• Developing as a senior contributor
• Switching jobs
• Switching careers
• Continuing your education
• Reinventing yourself
• Balancing life and work

Guidance-My Top 15 Suggestions for Coping with “Not Easy”

1. I’ve known a few people that seemed to have a free-pass through life’s difficulties, but for the rest of us, here are my suggestions and words of encouragement:
2. Attitude is everything.  Make certain that yours stays positive about the challenges in front of you.
3. There is no substitute for hard work.  Keep pushing the rock.
4. Success is in the details.  Don’t be a 70-percenter.  Learn to finish.
5. It’s all about learning.  Mistakes are your best teachers, just don’t make the same ones over and over again.
6. As my former boss would say, “Man plans and god laughs.”  Interpret that to mean that things mostly don’t go as you expect them to.
7. Hope is a crappy strategy.  See also the note on hard work.
8. You’ll make mistakes.  Don’t wallow for more than a few minutes.  Then shrug your shoulders and move on to your next challenge.
9. There are no guarantees.  There are no guarantees of how long any of us will be here, much less guarantees of employment and advancement.
10. You’ll have to work for everything you get.  Get over it.
11. Fear is the mind-killer. I love that quote from Frank Herbert.  Don’t let fear rule your life.
12. Measure-twice and cut once.  An extra emphasis on quality will serve you well.
13. Compensation is nice.  Ultimately enough is enough.  It’s a hollow goal to just chase the money.
14. The joy is in the journey, not the destination.
15. Touch people in the right way during your journey.  You go through this once.  Make it count.

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Beware the Pull of “Us Versus Them”

It’s easy to get caught up in departmental or team squabbles inside of organizations.  My advice: stay clear, stay out of it and learn to think and act for yourself.

Some functional squabbles are legendary.  Sales versus Marketing.  Marketing versus Development. Marketing and the rest of the organization.  Hey, maybe Marketing is the problem here! Perhaps if we put that group in their place… . (Just testing you.)

Stay clear!

Us versus Them squabbles are commonplace and destructive. “They don’t understand what we do.”  “They’re not in front of customers like we are.”  “They think that we just sit down at our computers and magically, new software code spews forth.”

It’s not about they or them, it’s about us and we.

People that view departmental walls and boundaries as fixed and even as important are misguided.  The focus is and must be on creating value for customers, on differentiating versus competitors and on finding as many ways as possible to improve efficiency and effectiveness.  While people might have a home base and a vocational orientation (marketing, sales, engineering etc.), there is no one group more important than the other.

You are all dependent upon each other.

The challenge to innovate often breeds dedicated “innovation” teams where a new form of “Us versus Them” develops.  One group, the innovators are cool and free from much of the bureaucracy that everyone else lives with on a daily basis.  The other group: operations, work to provide the funding that allows the innovators to do their thing.  Managers best beware of the potential for this situation to create divisions and hard feelings.

The challenges and solutions for managers to resolve silo problems and turf wars revolve around attention, constant communication, mutual respect and the creation of an environment of accountability for working together.  All groups are critical…all groups are valuable for many reasons.

As for you as an individual contributor or leader, steer clear of attempts to draw you into the divisions. The temptations is strong.  When you feel the urge to rail about another group, skip the moaning and reach out to a counterpart in that group and find a mutual way forward.  You’ll be happy that you did.

Show Respect by Paying Attention

I trot this anecdote every once in awhile because to this day, it’s still the best example that I’ve observed of a senior manager that missed the memo on the need to engage with her team members.

This individual was uncomfortable making decisions and engaging in difficult discussions, and she had what I describe as a “dodge and deflect” strategy for dealing with the pleas from her staff for face or air-time.  Her response to an inquiry would typically be something to the effect of, “That’s an important issue and we should talk about it at the right time.”

Guess when it was the right time?

If you guessed, “Never!” you’re right.

This senior leader not only frustrated her team members and slowed progress to a halt, but by dodging their need to express ideas to improve the business, she showed extreme professional disrespect for her colleagues.

Another manager that I coached had a habit of engaging in extended discussions while sending e-mails on his p.d.a.  While he heard and acknowledged the words from the individual attempting to communicate with him, we all know that it’s impossible to pull-off this type of multi-tasking and realize a quality communication experience.  In interviews, this manager’s employees indicated that they were both frustrated and offended by this poor approach.

And finally, a senior leader that I coached had invested years in avoiding operational discussions with his team members. While on one hand, he let them “do their jobs,” on the other hand, it was fairly frustrating for the team members to go for years without being able to engage, update, seek advice or even politely show-off what their teams were achieving.  This omission of attention showed a distinct lack of respect not only for the managers, but for the team members of the managers.

Take-Aways:

There are a million opportunities for us to shortchange conversations in pursuit of the urgent important.  It takes discipline and the recognition that your attention as a leader is one of the best ways that you have for conveying your respect for individuals and teams.  These are golden opportunities worth considerably more than whatever efficiency you thought you were gaining from minimizing contact.

It costs nothing to pay attention and the return on investment is priceless!  Perhaps it’s time to slow down and show some respect.

Take Responsibility for Your Own Development

In my not inconsiderable experience, too many people in business are in search of the proverbial silver bullet.

Unfortunately, there are no true silver bullets.

There are no quick fixes for any of: revenue shortfalls, product development problems, morale issues or disruptive competitors that have inconveniently changed the worth of your entire value proposition. The same holds true for your own professional development.

I’ve yet to figure out how to learn to lead without leading…and making mistakes. Can’t do it.

There are no courses or books that substitute for experience, although there are plenty to help you as you are gaining experience.  Strategy doesn’t show up in a crystal ball, great execution doesn’t happen by accident and head-turning results that propel careers aren’t based on good luck.

If you are fortunate, some of your professional development will occur as a result of the feedback and guidance from an effective leader or mentor.  For most however, it’s all up to you.  You need to put the time in, read the books, apply the lessons, experiment, learn, fail, unlearn, relearn and then try some more.

At the end of the day, the reward and the rewards that you derive from your career are a function of what you put into it.  The next time you attend a training class and say, “I’ve heard all of this before,” stop and recognize that it’s not hearing it that counts.  It’s what you do with it.

Want to Lead? Consider These Questions: #7 of 7

Note: the Seven Key Questions for Ambitious, Aspiring Leaders, are presented in the book, Practical Lessons in Leadership by Art Petty and Rich Petro.  I’ll explore each question here at Building Better Leaders through individual “Leadership Tip of the Day” posts, offering ideas for investigation and discussion.

The first six questions in this series challenged you to think through issues that are both philosophical and powerfully practical:

1. Why do you want to lead?
2. Do you understand the true role of a leader?
3. Do you understand that the skills that made you successful as an individual contributor are not the skills that will carry you forward?
4. Are you prepared to give up your domain expertise as your foundation for results?
5. What do you believe are the skills and personality traits that you need to succeed as a leader?
6. Do you understand that you will be judged by the output of your team and held accountable for this output?

If you’ve made it through the investigation of questions 1-6, it’s time for you to consider what your daily work life will be like as a leader.

7. What do you imagine your workday life to be like as a leader?

For those accustomed to having some semblance of autonomy over their daily lives, the transition to a role as a leader can shock the system.  This move from a “me-centric” daily routine to “everyone but me” focus has caught many an early leader by surprise.  The “day in the life” discussion fostered by this question will help clarify what a leader does everyday and how it differs from the role of individual contributor.  One suggestion is to allow aspiring leaders the opportunity to shadow you from time to time, as a means of understanding just how unglamorous leading can be.  Another suggestion is to have the aspiring leader spend a little bit of time with other leaders and interview them about their daily and weekly activities.

The Takeaway from The 7 Questions:

The Seven Key Questions for the Ambitious Aspiring Leader are powerful conversation starters to support a manager’s leadership development activities.  They are not intended to be delivered in machine-gun style, but rather to be used in concert with an approach to helping individuals discover and explore the profession of leadership.  Not everyone should lead, yet someone motivated by advancement might believe that leadership is the best or only way to achieve this goal.  An effective mutual discovery process is the leader’s best friend in helping identify leadership talent and in helping individuals come to their own conclusion on whether leading is a good choice for their own careers.

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Want to Lead? Answer These Questions! #6 of 7

Note: the Seven Key Questions for Ambitious, Aspiring Leaders, are presented in the book, Practical Lessons in Leadership by Art Petty and Rich Petro.  I’ll explore each question here at Building Better Leaders through individual “Leadership Tip of the Day” posts, offering ideas for investigation and discussion.

The first five questions in this series challenged you to think through issues that are both philosophical and powerfully practical:

• Why do you want to lead?
• Do you understand the true role of a leader?
• Do you understand that the skills that made you successful as an individual contributor are not the skills that will carry you forward?
• Are you prepared to give up your domain expertise as your foundation for results?
• What do you believe are the skills and personality traits that you need to succeed as a leader?

If you’ve made it through the investigation of questions 1-5, it’s time for you to consider your new world of accountability.

Number 6. Do you understand that you will be responsible for the output of your team members, and that you will be judged on this output?

One of the transition challenges that many first-time leaders face is recognizing and accepting the new found accountability for the results of others.  You can look left and right, but at the end of the day, you need only look in the mirror to find the person responsible for the output of your team.  This issue underscores your need to focus on talent selection and development, creating the effective working environment and doing everything in your power to knock down obstacles so that others can plow ahead on their endeavors.  You’ve moved from a “me-centric” role to one that is completely “you-centric.”

Consider your responsibility and new-found accountability very carefully and remember that you will now live by the Coach’s Credo: “If we succeed, it’s because of the team and if we fail, it’s because of me.”

Want to Lead? What Skills Do I Need to Succeed? #5 of 7

Note: the Seven Key Questions for Ambitious, Aspiring Leaders, are presented in the book, Practical Lessons in Leadership by Art Petty and Rich Petro.  I’ll explore each question here at Building Better Leaders through individual “Leadership Tip of the Day” posts, offering ideas for investigation and discussion.

The first four questions in this series challenged you to think through issues that are both philosophical and powerfully practical:

• Why do you want to lead?
• Do you understand the true role of a leader?
• Do you understand that the skills that made you successful as an individual contributor are not the skills that will carry you forward?
• Are you prepared to give up your domain expertise as your foundation for results?

If you’ve made it through the investigation of questions 1-4, it’s time for you to focus in on what it takes to be successful as a leader.

5. What do you believe are the skills and personality traits that you need to succeed as a leader?

This question allows the manager and aspiring leader to dig deeper into the role of leadership and to raise awareness of distinct skills and traits essential for leadership success.  One potential assignment is to ask the aspiring leader to think about leaders that he/she has admired and to describe what it was about these people that made them positive role models.  And as always, I encourage aspiring leaders to sit down with experienced leaders and talk about the role and challenges.  Chances are the answers to this question will sound a lot like: patience, fortitude, comfort in coaching and delivering feedback, ability to connect the big picture to day to day realities and so forth.

All of these questions are about building context for the role and life of a leader, and through studying others, the individual can think about their own skills and how they apply or where they need to be strengthened.

Lessons On Managing Oneself

In his classic article, “Managing Oneself,” (HBR, 1999), the late, great management thinker, Peter Drucker, offered the following:

“We live in an age of unprecedented opportunity: if you’ve got ambition, drive and smarts, you can rise to the top of your profession-regardless of where you started out.  But with opportunity comes responsibility.  Companies today aren’t managing their knowledge workers’ careers.  Rather, we must each be our own chief executive officer.”

The futurist, Alvin Toffler offered:

“The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn and relearn.”

Questions to Ask and Answer:

What are you doing to foster your ability to learn, unlearn and relearn?

Have you declared yourself CEO of your own career?  What’s your strategy for success?

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